“Never cut a tree down in the wintertime. Never make a negative decision in the low time. Never make your most important decisions when you are in your worst moods. Wait. Be patient. The storm will pass. The spring will come.”
– Robert H. Schuller
“If you have a positive attitude and constantly strive to give your best effort, eventually you will overcome your immediate problems.”
– Pat Riley
“Spring is the best life coach: It gives you all the energy you want, all the positive thoughts you wish and all the boldness you need!”
― Mehmet Murat ildan
“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle, or the mirror that reflects it”
– Edith Wharton
Stress comes in many ways, shapes and forms. No one is the same, and that includes how we deal and how we handle stress. You may question if stress is a daily part of your life. Stress can appear in a multitude of ways. A handful of things to look out for are:
- Rapid weight gain/ weight loss
- Excessive eating/ not eating at all
- Working out but with no satisfaction after
- Anxiousness/ irritability
- Find more signs here.
Sometimes you may ask yourself how can I start dealing with this? How do I figure out how to combat this? Our beautiful souls are all different. This is why we are unique as people, and different things help each one of us. Always though, if life feels like its getting too much for you to handle on your own. You should seek professional help and advice. Having someone you don’t personally know to talk to can sometimes help more than you think.
For myself stress is constantly in my life. However, I can usually thrive off of “chaotic stress.” Working in the EMS field can be hectic everyday but having a passion for it can help fuel your efforts for it. I use this fuel to the best of my ability and push myself more so I can get the best outcome in a situation. I am also currently in school to become a Navy Hospital Corpsman which is another level of a chaotic environment. From working on ships, to hospitals and being in combat zones, the stress will never stop. For some reason though I thrive working in chaos. Doing something to push myself every day. I know it sounds crazy, but I love it and honestly wouldn’t change it.
Update: My Stress in School
Navy Corpsman school like all schools is …wait for it…stressful! I knew, who knew? Sometimes I think it has been more stressful than a deployment or working in the EMS field. Being thrown into this new boot (newbie) environment was a shock to my system, all the way down to my core. Being a fleet returnee (someone who has prior service in the military), I had to follow the same rules as everyone fresh from boot camp. Thank goodness I wasn’t alone in this process though. There are other fleet returnees here too. We became each others sounding boards to help us make it through school. Being 26 years old and treated like an 18 year old is so hard to wrap your head, but we had to do it to a point. We also were put in charge of our class and have to make sure they don’t get in trouble and show up to everywhere they are supposed to be. Talk about being stressed. There have definitely been moments when I wanted to have a meltdown and just leave and go back home, but I didn’t. I didn’t allow this type of stress to get to me and here were some of the things I did to cope:
- Worked out at the gym with my roomie. Did yoga and meditated.
- Wrote in my journal about my emotions and what made me upset. Happy or sad, I basically recorded my day.
- I read some books that I brought from home while sipping Yogi Stress Relief Tea.
- Listened to music that would calm me down and allowed me to find my zen again.
- Talked and talked AND talked to my family and friends that understood what was going on.
- Shopping therapy! I have no shame, sometimes it helps when you can wear something you feel good in. Like comfy pajamas.
- Friday movie nights, with popcorn and snacks included.
I know this seems like a random list of things, but for me it isn’t. Its what helped me when I started bottling up the stress. I’m still learning and trying out different things to help de-stress and get back to feeling light and airy. It may take trying different techniques, and different things to see what really helps and speaks to you. Don’t allow stress to win and take hold of your life. You can get through anything if you try. We are all stronger than we think.
“Appreciate yourself, and honor your soul.”
Shout out to my family and friends who deal with me when I am a crazy stress ball. Love you ❤
“Music is powerful. As people listen to it, they can be affected. They respond.”
– Ray Charles
“The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation rather than upon mere survival.”
“Ships don’t sink because of the water around them; ships sink because of the water that gets in them. Don’t let what’s happening around you get inside you and weigh you down.”
“Superstition is the poetry of life.”
Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe, The Maxims and Reflections of Goethe
Setbacks Don’t Mean To Just Give Up
Setbacks don’t mean you get to give up and stop trying. They happen sometimes and we have to push through, carefully and willfully. Since being here in my “A” school I have been going through my chaotic whirlwind. One of the things that help me clear my mind is working out. Well, I have micro tears in my Achilles tendon from some of the things we had to do here and it has been an annoying setback. Even though I can’t do the hardcore extreme workouts I would like to do, I don’t let it completely put me on my butt. I still manage to find ways to workout and also take care of myself so that I don’t injure myself further. I also have someone who gives me support and also tells me when I should take a rest day so that I can heal properly and quickly. Always remember to stay positive, there is always a silver lining to anything. Don’t let your mind get into an “I can’t do this” mindset. It will make things much harder for yourself, trust me I have been there. Keep your head up, your spirits high and your mindset positive. Don’t let a setback get in the way of your goal.
“Focus on your potential instead of your limitations.”– Alan Loy McGinnis
“Sometimes you don’t realize you’re blocking your own blessings by thinking negatively and holding on to the past. Learn to let go.”– Germany Kent